Favourite Verses

I was reminded, on my trip home recently, of another of Dad's favourite verses.

For I am persuaded that neither life nor death, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39)

The family have put together a couple of albums and booklets for Dad (our niece even made a photo album for a Christmas present) and this verse was in one of them.  He can read these albums at his leisure, or we get them out when we visit - to attempt to keep him remembering his family.

To date the books have managed to stay in Dad's dresser where he can easily access them but out of view of others.

The quirky thing about Alzheimers homes is that the residents will wander.  They'll sleep on each others beds and help themselves to each others clothes, shoes and other belongings. 

Dad is no exception to this behaviour.  In fact, because he is a bit of a magpie, I'm guessing he's one of the worst offenders.  It was not unusual, when visiting, to have to escort him out of someone else's room or find him dressed in clothes that weren't his.

Some facilities try to prevent this communal sharing of private property by locking all the bedroom doors during the day.  Others accept that this behaviour is normal and request, quite sensibly, that all belongings be clearly labelled.  Then when found elsewhere they can be returned to the correct room, eventually.

We decided to go for the communal sharing mind set.  There is something not nice about locking old confused people out of their rooms during the day.  Does it really matter if they don't quite make it to the right room now and then, or if they help themselves to something that takes their fancy. 

Considering what this disease does to them, why not let what belongs to someone else bring them a little joy for a little while.

One can only hope that, should they hoist Dad's books, they'll like his favourite songs and verses as much as he did.